Saturday, July 7, 2012

Lets talk about Sex

Warning, this post will contain information of a sexual nature. If you don't want to know about me and sex, don't read it. If you do...well, there you go. 
I haven't posted about sex in a while, and I saw this on one of my friend's blogs, so I thought I would give it a go. Some of these questions may not apply to me, so I'll do my best answering them, but for the most part I think I can cover most of these.
* I'd like to make the note I edited this after I went to bed because it occurred to me that I have an annoying habit of answering questions with single words.
 What is something you have always wanted to try sexually?
I don't think there's anything I want to do that I haven't tried, honestly, 
What is something you have never done in bed before?  
 Uh, watersports. And I won't. That's gross. Also, I've never had sex with more than two people at once. That I don't mind.   

What time of day do you like to have sex?  
Uh, I don't care? I like right before bed or first thing in the am, but I'm not too picky. 

What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on?  
I need to see that my partner wants me. I think its silly this idea that you have to see skin or be titivated by flesh to get turned on or excited. A truly beautiful person who makes you feel sexy can make you hot even if they're wearing a full length sweater and wool pants. 

How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?  
Not very long. I like to touch the people I am with.  

If someone was in the next room would it make you nervous or excited? 
It would depend on who it was. As a general rule, I'd say I would rather they go find something to do.

 Have you ever faked an orgasm?  
Yes. But not recently. 

What Part of your body are you self-conscious about?  
My legs and my feet. I think my toes are warped from ballet when i was younger and I worry that I have monster thighs. I probably don't, but there you have it.
Do you have any sexual regrets? 

How Important is sex in your life? 
Important but not vital. It makes a relationship special, but you don't have to have it to love someone.  I'm not one of those people who'll reproach their partners with "You haven't had sex with my in 
(x) days. You don't love me anymore." I might miss them, but I realize sometimes sleep or quality time doing something that isn't sex is more important. 

 Do you like biting and scratching?
Sometimes. But not, like, drawing blood. And not preplanned. I'm a heat of the moment kind of girl.  

How do you feel about leaving marks?
I like them in private spots you don't see, like the thighs or the rib cage, or the back. I think marks on the neck are tacky. 
Do you believe in make-up sex? 
Well, it exists, yes... I don't think sex is the best way to commemorate the fact that you've had an argument. 

Have you ever had a one night stand?  
Sort of. I knew them, but I only slept with them once. Does that count?

 Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so?

Who did you lose your virginity to? 
I guy I dated in high school that was a jerk and probably didn't deserve it. His name was Nathan.  

When and Where did you lose your virginity?  
I was 15, it was September 25 in the middle of the afternoon and in a bed...

Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant table?
No. I think that's tacky.  

Where would you have sex in public?  
Not really my thing. I have...but it wasn't my thing. I'm too paranoid. Also, I'd like to think I'm a lady
Would you ever have sex while at work?  

Would you have sex in the rain?  
Maybe. Location is everything.   

What movie makes you horny? 
Uh, none that I can think of off the top of my head. There's actors and actresses I find attractive but that's about it. I'm a real life person. Movies are so contrived.   

What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural?  
Trimmed. Although that's a preference. I don't care with most women. Honestly, I think all three can be sexy. Its all about the person and how they wear their personality in bed.  

Would you have sex in a dressing room?  

Do you like your partner to be loud during sex? 
If they are naturally loud, yes. I hate when people make noise because they think they need to be loud. I'd rather it be natural. Conversely, though, I've been with people who told me talking or excessive noise turned them off and I spent the whole time worried I was being too loud.  

What words do you like to hear during sex?  
True ones

How many times a week do you like to have sex?  
When I can? I don't normally set a number...

Have you done the 69 position?  
Seeing as how I'm not 16. Yes.
What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body?  
My back, my hips, my mouth

Top or Bottom?  
Depends. I can be happy either way. It just depends on the day and (you got this) who my partner is.  

Bedroom or other room? 
Bedroom. Call me boring. I like soft surfaces.   

Lights on or off?
That depends on my partner and what they are comfortable with. Time of day also makes a difference. I like morning sunlight and moonlight to the light directly overhead in my room. If I need light, I'd rather crack the bathroom door and leave the light on in there. Its to help me see, not provide a spotlight. 

Public or Private?  

Partially or Entirely naked?  
Naked. Partially can be hot, don't get me wrong, but I'd rather be naked.  

Naughty Videos or Hot Photos?  
Real people. I really would rather have a real person in front of me. If I have to break down and use porn, believe me when I say I'd rather it be well written and I get to make the pictures in my head.  

Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather?  

Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle? 

Standing up or Laying down? 
laying down

Soft or Firm touch? 

Under Covers or On top? 
Yes. EXCEPT- in the winter I require blankets because I am cold natured.

 Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo?  

Any New Positions you havent done but want to try?  
We covered this first. No.   

Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore?  
Explore? No. But I have some.   

Are there any secret desires you have never told?  
  Would I tell them here? No, I'm a pretty open person. I mean, I think everyone has desires that they don't talk about, and I think that's fine, but it doesn't make them secret. I think that word implies you would need to hide it for a  reason, and I don't see the need for that.

Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex?  
In my bed.

What is your favorite thing about sex?  
The way my partner looks and sounds

What is your favorite sexual setting?  
I don't have one  

Would you ever fool around in a movie theater?  

Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf?  
I've filmed before. I wouldn't post it on the internet or anything.   

Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf?

Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person?  
Haha. I would like it more. But I don't care so much that its necessary. So yes and no?  

Do you like it rough or sensual?:  
Its depends. Usually its sensual.   

Do you prefer to be with the opposite sex or the same sex? or both?:
Same sex  

Do you have sex face to face with your partner?:

How often do you get drunk and have wild, crazy sexy with a complete stranger?:

How do you feel about one night stands?:
I try to avoid them. I don't think they're safe and they are usually less enjoyable because you don't know your partner. 

Do you prefer to make love or fuck?: 
Making love  

Have you ever watched porn while having sex?: 
Yes. It was boring sex too. It was for the gratification of my partner at the time, who would not admit for the life of him that he actually liked men. But he loved slash porn and that kind of stuff. So we watched it. I think he had a nice time. I wouldn't do it again 

How long do you usually fore-play before doing the deed?: 
As long as possible  

Do you like kissing during sex?: 

Does size matter?: 
Well, in my experience, yes. But not the way you would think. I think its more important that you fit well together and everyone knows that they're doing. I've been with people who were smaller (hands and genitalia, btw) and they were fine. I've been with people who were huge and awful. But those are exceptions, not rules. Each person is different. I think paying attention to your partner's needs is more important.  

How many sexual partners have you have in the last month?
I have two sex partners. That's it. Ever probably. 

What does your favorite fore-play include?: 
Enjoying the person I'm with.   

Have you ever done anal? If so, did you like it?:  
Yes. And sometimes yes and sometimes no. It depends on your partner.   

Have you ever have sex for money?: 

Have you ever bribed someone to sleep with you?: 
No. There's this thing called dignity...

How many positions do you like to do during one episode?:
Uh, whatever I'm in the mood for? Its not like I keep track.

 Do you ever worry about how you’re pleasing your partner?: 
 Not anymore. No. I'm good at what I do. I know that. I used to be more uncomfortable with how I preformed with men, because obviously, I have less experience there, and I'm not as comfortable. I also tend to be way more selfish with men because usually sex with them is a means to an end. Then again, with that the case, why worry, right? With women I know what I'm doing and I love it.  

Could you live without sex?:
I imagine so, but it might get boring...I suppose I should say yes, I could, but I would be very disappointed to have to.  

How long does a typical sexual episode last for you?:
Couple hours or so?  

Do you like to perform oral sex?:

Do you like to recieve oral sex?: 

Have you ever taped yourself in the act?:
We covered this.   

Have you ever had a 3-some? 4-some? 5-some?: 
Threesome. That's it.   

Have you ever been caught in the act?:

Have you ever had sex on drugs?:

Do you spit or swallow?:
Neither. lol

Would you let other people watch you have sex live?: 

Do you ever have sex in the shower?: 

What was the biggest age difference with a partner?: 
About 12 years

Do you feel your up to par in bed?: 

What was your most embarrassing sexual moments?:
Um, I had a partner who was chewing gum and she had it on her palm was embarrassing getting it off of me... I became a much stricter groomer after that. Outside of that, I think sex is taken too seriously most of the time. Just because a position doesn't go well or you make a weird noise or whatever doesn't mean you should be ashamed.  

Do you like having sex in cars? If so, driver seat, passenger, or back?:
Not really 

Do you wear protection as often as you should?: 
Well, since I'm in a relationship now, no I don't because I got tested, as did my partner and we both know we're clean. If I were to be in another relationship I would every time. Always use protection, always, always get tested after every partner and every 6 months, kids, its the only safe way. 

Do you prefer to sleep with someone older or younger than you?:
I think maturity and compatibility are more important, but older.   

Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)?:

Can you remember who gave you the best sex of your life?:
Yes. She's the first thing I see every morning.   

If you could sleep with ANYONE, would would it be?:
You know, I have a "would" list, but I'm pretty happy with how things stand as they are.  Okay, far as males go...I think Alexander Skarsgard is really pretty. Then again, i think he's gay, so that's off the options anyway, isn't it. As far as women celebrities know...I don't know. Because a woman can be beautiful and I could still not enjoy her because of her personality. So I guess the safest bet would be Ellen Degeneres because I think she is both sweet and funny. I wouldn't say no to Tina Fey either, for that same reason.

There you go, kids. The ABC's of sex with me. Feel free to repost in the comments, or at your place, and let me know. If you feel like sharing. Or feel free to ask questions I might not have answered. I'm pretty well an open book.


1 comment:

  1. you know, regarding the attractiveness question, I'm a firm believer that there's something attractive about absolutely everyone. If you're interested in looking, you can find it. Lots of people don't bother to go beyond the obvious, and I'm sure that some people don't believe they have attractive qualities themselves... but there's always something. And, of course, there are lots of unattractive traits that can make the most beautiful person hideous to be with.
    I've said before, Petal, but I love and admire how open and unguarded you can be. Here I am: take me or leave me. Hard-earned, I know.... but if I could, I'd take you in an instant!
    ...wait, that sounds smutty. Ah, you know what I mean.